THE POWER OF POSITVE THINKING PUTTING SOME “SPRING” INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP
There are some factors that can breakdown the happy bond in your relationship. Stress, money, time and unemployment have broken several relationships. If relationship is in this category, it’s time to spice it up with positive thinking. There are simple techniques to follow if you consider your relationship falling apart. These techniques well help your relationship regain it balance. some of these techniques are:
FOCUS ON GOOD THINGS INSTEAD OF BAD
This is the first point to achieving a better result in your relationship. Thinking/paying so much attention to your partner’s flaws will only deteriorate the relationship balance. The positive emotion a partner get from each other determines the closer and connected they become.
When a partner thinks positively, such a partner is definitely going to judge things positively than negatively. Sometimes, people go beyond their ways to do things for us but because they in one way or the other messed up, we shouldn’t judge them. Let’s encourage our spouse. View the world and your relationship from a positive point of view by appreciating their efforts.
Reducing argument with your spouse/partner is another way to spice up your relationship. some men hate to be argued with or challenged and to help your relationship grow, you have to understand that keeping a relationship is a mutual responsibility and in that light, you need to avoid things the other partner dislikes. If this is done, expect a change in your relationship.
CRITIZE LESS AND COMPLIMENT MORE
Criticism does not help friendship or relationship grow. Therefore to put some spring into your relationship, you need to do away with criticism and adopt a new style of complimenting each other. Sometimes, some partner feel the best way to push the other person to make decision or do the right thing is by criticizing them. Yes! It is not wrong but over doing it is wrong and can reduce the spring in the bond.
Talking to your partner can spring up the flow in your relationship. Communication grows a relationship and tightens the bond between partners. Most relationship today, crumbles because of lack of communication. However, a lot of people think being in a relationship is just for the sex so they overlook the reason for being in a relationship is the companionship and friendship. If you understand the reason you are in a relationship, then communication shouldn’t be difficult for you.